Hitting Women: Hitting Women – That’s Messed Up – Nouman Ali Khan
The subject of women safety, empowerment and equal rights have been always an interesting topic for media. Talking the issue in Indian context, the rape incidents serve just one tool in the hand of politicians and media circuits to capitalise the event. I never get the point of heated debate, water cannon agitations and cursing the ruling government. If we think logically we have enough rules, legislations and administrative infrastructure to deal with these incidents. However in spite of all the massive police force and intellectually enlightened population of metros the cases of sexual offence seems not to be subsiding.
It is interesting though to note that people in general do not have a definite moral stand on the validity of goodness for the offences. Personally to my knowledge more than 90% of colleagues and people i know from India use sexist slangs in informal chats. They keep on having a browsing eyes to women and do not consider this to be an offence. This is quite natural to men in general and is considered cool to use “F” and “M” and other words to give a subconscious sense of sexual offence while joking and checking out the next walking girl on street. They think themselves responsible enough and the act to be mature enough. There is no good and bad to it, that’s what they say.
In general everyone is having a single opinion over gender discrimination, harassments, molestation and rape. However when it comes to nudity, pornography, prostitution, drugs and alcohol the opinion differs. Let’s think a bit more.
In a recent news (NDTV/Washington Post) on 29th November 2015 there was a disturbing news. Actually not so disturbing. As i discussed with few people and most of them do not give any uncomfortable gesture. The news was over the condition of Greek women and the prostitution market. It says:
“Young Greek women are selling sex for the price of a sandwich as six years of painful austerity has pushed the European country to the financial brink, a new study showed Friday.”
Read full story : https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/young-greek-women-selling-sex-for-the-price-of-a-sandwich-new-study-shows/2015/11/27/c469695e-94d9-11e5-b5e4-279b4501e8a6_story.html
If this news was published in a way that in Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, Iraq or Iran or any muslim society the condition of women is such and such then of course, well we can imagine the overflow of anti Islamic sentiments.
This is quite possible many rich Indians would have planned their trip to Greece. You don’t get such bargains daily.
The point here is that if a society accepts selling sex as a commodity, they should not complain about harassment, abuse and rape. Once you are in market and you sell “nudity” in the name of art, practice informal sexist remarks in the name of “free speech”and cheat your partners, as a society you do not hold any moral standard for men women relationship. In the absence of standards you can’t define rules and eventually this hits back occasionally.
Some of my friend think prostitution is OK. There is nothing wrong in it. However if i ask them if they would like their sisters, mothers, wife and relatives in the business; some says No and some sports a casual yes silence. Well if it generates money its OK. If you endorse such view how can you complain about a poor who do not get a good sex experience and is frustrated with his spouse. If he sees a beautiful girl passing by he is just attempting to fulfil his need which the society as a whole has allowed in the name of art and culture. For him she is not a rape victim. She is just an unwilling sperm recipient.
We are equipping young generation with sick minds by allowing free pornography, underprivileged with drugs and alcohol to get themselves free. Prostitution as a free market where all the foundation of family values are massacred. Once the hearts and minds are corrupted, there is no turning back. Addiction demands more and there are plenty of options. If not, while drunk, they lose control and seek what some society elites term as crime.
Rape incidents are the outcome of hypocritical stand of society over moral standards. Period.
In coming times and is happening recently, that this business of seeking desires is promoted as escort services and other heavy dictionary terms. You will either loose the definition of family and will exist as a singular fun seeking creature like Satan, or will experience intermittent jerks of rape incidents. You will never be safe in balancing morality and your desires.
In the absence of moral standards in current society, Islam is the only way which defines and maintains the morality of women, family values and society. To know further i encourage readers to go through following Videos.
Hitting Women: Hitting Women – That’s Messed Up – Nouman Ali Khan
Status of Women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vy-WRz9S0hw
Men are not equal to women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7_H7QPnSJg
First Part: This article of mine was a translation in Urdu of the original work by Dr Humayun Khan. This discusses about universe, big bang, crunch and hereafter signs.
Second Part: This article of mine was a translation in Urdu of the original work by Dr Humayun Khan. This discusses about universe, big bang, crunch and hereafter signs.
Attached urdu article published in Rafeeq-Manzil in November 2001. I was in Engineering 1st Year. Enthusiastic in exploring Quran’s scientific miracles.
However the authentic scripts are interpreted as exotic obscene stories. So when you messed up with Solomon’s (pbuh) story, Satan got the edge to get you astray.
As with quadratic outcomes these two events happened simultaneously. One of my friend left Islam and i met a person who accepted Islam without a logical reason. He just got peace while in Islam. However, inspirational drives and spontaneous decisions are always fragile. To accept a lifestyle we need conviction.
While discussing with the non-believer (ex muslim) i came across many arguments which are very much self explanatory and do not contradict any scientific facts. When i clarified; the discussion hopped on to different questions and then casual laugh and emotional discharges which was difficult for me to handle, so i left the discussion. I generally avoid any discussion which is having any slightest hint of contempt among the idea being discussed. If you are to be firm in what you believe and violate the logic and reasoning and ridicule with occasional LOLs i love to be defeated. Pride, ego, contempt and envy is satanic and i say “Auzubillah himinash shaitan-nir-rajeem“.
One of the argument discussed was about the story of DhulQarNayn in chapter 18 verse 86. This was quite self explanatory that Quran do not say that the Sun sets in a muddy ground, but refers to the psychology/observation of DhulQarNayn that he found Sun to be setting in a Spring of dark mud.
[Until, when he reached the setting of the sun, he found it [as if] setting in a spring of dark mud, and he found near it a people. Allah said, “O Dhul-Qarnayn, either you punish [them] or else adopt among them [a way of] goodness.]
There are plenty of references where the verse is explained : http://www.understanding-islam.com/q-and-a/miscellaneous-issues/regarding-al-kahaf-18-86-a-scientific-error-5198
Plus there was a Hadith where Prophet refers Sun to sets in hot spring of water. If we do some research we may find this to be erroneous as well : http://www.understanding-islam.com/q-and-a/miscellaneous-issues/where-does-the-sun-set-hadith-error-9541
Leaving apart the points of criticism, the only scientific piece of verification about the “celestial orbits and planetary motion” is mentioned in Quran. The only book with a reference to “Big Bang theory” is the Quran.
Recently i watched this video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuCPgpQl34g]. Well the verse 5:47 is about the original Injeel which was revealed to Jesus for Jews and Quran says: This is obligatory for them to follow them. This stands true and as Old Testament and Jesus’s prophecy commands to follow Muhammad (pbuh), Christians and Jews should follow. However if you take verses out of context and water-shed the translations, may Allah save you. Plus the logic of other guy in same video in the end (Nabeel Q) is not right. It is said about those who followed Torah to follow Torah and Torah prophesied Muhammad (pbuh) in clear Hebrew language [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_Dhog9nr9o]. People should have a look on the reference. Muhammad is mentioned by name in Original scriptures Song of Solomon 5:16 : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_Dhog9nr9o
And they disable the comment section in YouTube. Bravo.
One more observation for this guy Nabeel Q about 15:91. Just to enlighten audience to me as a general reader of Quran, this talks about those who take Quran’s text in bits and pieces and give a different meaning as the people in video are doing.
[And together with the Pagans they used their underhand scheming to discredit the Quran by fragmenting it into parts, labelling some as sheer poetry, some as legendary and others as divinatory, and fed the pilgrims thoughts with their falsehood.]
If you really want to live a life of joy, pleasure, lust, romance and freedom what you comprehend, no one will stop you. Go and seek. However if you genuinely want to counter an argument counter it like a man of understanding. Present the argument or fact which can be debated. This will require you to study, learn and devote time. At times we don’t have time. We love partying, fun, drinks, laughs, lust and fall pray to the admirations which we love to be with. We do not have time, and if have some, we use it in criticising which we do not want to understand. I call this Satanic.
If you find your life fulfilling and peaceful without Islam, its OK. Islam says “There is no compulsion in religion”. In the day of judgement when Allah will ask a person to be set himself free of hellfire in exchange of all worldly benifits, he will say “Yes”. However Allah asked only to believe in the miracles which was bestowed on us and nothing more. This is called bankruptcy and people will wish to be dirt rather being human. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfzTlK074eg]
Allah will not send you in hellfire as you are not a muslim. Instead humans will come with a load of sins. Allah will definitely ask: “Did you make use of the framework i sent to you via Prophet Muhammad to get rid of the sins?”. This framework is Islam. If we fail to make use of it in safeguarding ourselves, its our failure.
We will show them Our signs in the horizons and within themselves until it becomes clear to them that it is the truth. But is it not sufficient concerning your Lord that He is, over all things, a Witness? http://quran.com/41/53
I feel myself blessed with the knowledge of Urdu, Hindi, English, Arabic (basics), my early study in Islam and Almighty’s blessings that i can understand and comprehend where seekers of this world get pleasure and bliss in darkness of evils.